When you feel like your wife is cheating on you, finding out the truth as fast as you can is your only hope for making things better, or to stop them from getting worse. More married men don’t even consider the possibility of their wife cheating on them, but it is more common than you’d think. And we are not saying that women are to blame for this, it could be you who is not meeting their needs for time and affection that’s been driving them away from you.
Sometimes, the truth is right in front of you, but you still choose to look the other way, just because you love your wife so much. You can’t even imagine them cheating on you. But as much as we hate to say this, it happens.
So, what you need to do is to look for the signs whether your wife is cheating on you or not. You can do that by noticing considerable differences in her behavior towards you and your family.
Here are the telltale warning signs that show your wife might be cheating on you
1. She’s Overly Protective of Her Phone
If you and your spouse have always shared your phone with one another, depending on the level of trust and intimacy your have with her, once she suddenly starts being overly protective of her phone then that can raise some questions. If you notice any changes in these boundaries of intimacy regarding your phone, and you see her always guarding her phone, then that is a clear sign something’s changed. When you notice text messages beeps on her phone 24/7, it is a sign that things are not the same anymore.
2. You Start Catching Lies in Her Stories
Cheaters tend to be quite great at lying. But still, if you look closely enough, you can see straight through their lies. And you deserve this. If you feel like you are doing everything you can to save the relationship, you need to know whether she is responding the same way or not. If her stories don’t add up and you start catching little lies and stuff that she’s been hiding from you, you need to consider this to be a sign of cheating.
3. She is Hard to Contact When She’s Out
Whenever she is out running errands or from some other work, if she is hard for you to contact then it might be possible that she is deliberately doing it to avoid you. Now, this doesn’t necessarily mean that she might be cheating on you but still, you need to ask her to see how she responds. You can judge from her answer whether not picking up the phone was on purpose or not. They’d try to cover their tracks but based on your social media activity, you can figure out whether they are being truthful or not.
If your wife is cheating on you, she’d find every chance to get away from you. She’d overly encourage you to stay out with your friends and won’t be interested in going out with you anymore. She doesn’t care about your day and won’t be paying attention in spending time with you. Now, this could also be a sign for exhaustion if you have kids, but this is a red flag for couples who are married but don’t have kids yet.
5. She Stopped Planning Long-Term with You
When your wife is cheating on you, she doesn’t see a future with you anymore. So, she won’t take interest in planning long-term with you. Whether it is about going on a vacation or buying new property, a women involved in infidelity would be way past these things. This is because she just doesn’t care anymore. She spends more time finding ways out and not planning with you for the future.
6. She’s Not Interested in Family Obligations Anymore
When your wife is cheating on you, she is going to be indifferent towards you and the things that are important to you. She’d come up with excuses to not go on family events and just won’t want to be a part of any of it. She won’t care about birthdays, holidays and anything like that. This kind of non-participation is a form of her not being present in the relationship and the reasons for that are obvious.
There you have it. Whenever you see these signs, don’t waste anymore time and talk to her straight away. If you want to give your relationship another chance, then by all means, go for it. But if things still don’t seem to work out, then perhaps letting go is your only option.